Aquarius

AQUARIUS FEMALE: Distinctly intelligent, independent and often times very unconventional, this woman is full of unexpected surprises. If you admire a person who speaks their mind, doesn't cater to rules, and has a heart beat for the underdog, take the time to get to know her. To know her is to know someone who is very unusual. If she is compulsive about anything, it is her need to keep experiencing all that the world has to offer. She is drawn to people who are bright, witty, self assured, non-judgmental and progressive. Since she possesses these attributes, she often times will attract an opposite type just so she can experience another perspective. This is a sad misplacement of her affection, as she is happier in the long run with someone who reflects her high-minded ideals. If intellectual equality and a genuine friendship is what you yearn for in a relationship, this woman can easily fit that role. However, if you are looking for someone to mend your socks, mind her ways and simply take care of the domestic arena, pass this one by.

First Approach: She loves people. If you fall into that category, you have a good chance of getting to know her. She is never one to judge anyone by first impressions, as she is just too worldly for that. She knows instinctively that people are complex and enjoys the process of finding out what makes them tick. Be innovative and come up with an interesting topic of conversation and she will usually join in without much encouragement. An honest and forward approach rarely turns her off, as she respects a person who is straightforward.

First Date: A rebel at heart, she completely enjoys anything that promises a thrill. Unconventional and off-the-beaten-track "dives" with a diverse and interesting crowd can be just the right place to go. Let me repeat, she is a people- person, so inviting her to join you and a group of your friends, is always a nice ice- breaker. She can be absent -minded at times, so make sure that you call the day before to confirm the date. Sexual expression is not usually an area she finds difficult, but in the emotional arena she is a bit more detached. If you want a lasting relationship with her, start by making her your best friend.
EROGENOUS ZONE : Calves and ankles. Massaging or gently tickling the area.

Last Date: Be fearful and cautious of anything that is different. Complain about her friends and refuse to socialize. Be rigid and controlling. You may not know how she will make her exit, but it will happen in record time.

AQUARIUS MALE: Even if he is not scholastically an achiever, he has a high IQ. Get to know him and you will have met up with a walking dictionary brimming with zany facts and enough information to blow the sockets out of the average person. It's rare to find an Aquarius that is not street wise, and even rarer to find one that is not a book worm. He often has the appearance of being a lost child in a grocery store, but don't let that fool you. He is not lost, he is just so preoccupied with his quest for knowledge that he sometimes gets overwhelmed. Often times he even looks eccentric, but the less extroverted types keep their eccentric side under conservative wraps. Whatever the case, it never takes very long to discover that this guy cares little about dancing to the same beat as everyone else. This does not mean he does not care about his fellow man, because part of his charm is that he cares deeply about other people. If romantic expression and softly spoken words of love are music to you ears, you better not attempt this union. He needs a person who is confident enough to know that he cares without a lot of melodramatic lip service. Once in love, he is dedicated, loyal and always sincere in his affection. One thing you can count on, he will always be there for you -even if you do have to make a loud screeching sound once in awhile.

First Approach. The best way to get his attention is to think as much about others as yourself. He has very little interest in people who are self- absorbed or obsessively emotional. What he does like is someone who is passionate and idealistic about life. If you have a pet "cause", he is the first person to listen and respond. A reformer at heart, he is always ready to give a helping hand to anyone in need.

First Date: Don't expect this man to be too imaginative when it comes to traditional courtship, but this doesn't mean you can't be. In fact, it would be a plus. This man loves the element of surprise, even if it means diving into unknown territory. If you can be the one to show him something new, he is going to be intrigued right away. Although he can have opinions as solid as rock candy, he is seldom judgmental when it comes to your personal belief system. He may not agree, but he will usually listen. Social gatherings are a worthy bet for the first date, but if you really want to get to know this man, then opt for a more personal date. His first romantic advances could border on being awkward. Once he relaxes though, his fertile mind has no limits. Do remember that friendship is high on his list of priorities, so becoming his friend before immediate intimacy is recommended.

EROGENOUS ZONE : Calves and ankles. Massaging or gently tickling the area.

Last Date: Insist that you are alone at all times. Have continuous crying jags. Stamp your feet and scream at the top of your lungs whenever he starts talking about something you are not interested in. Tell him he is stupid every chance you get. He may always consider you a distant friend, but he will definitely distance himself.

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