ARIES FEMALE: This is not a women to be taken lightly by any stretch of the imagination. Born with inexhaustible optimism and a great deal of boldness, courage and initiative, she can be a great partner for anyone who craves plenty of stimulus in their relationships. Strong, willful and opinionated, this fiery female thrives on challenges and is not afraid to face them head on. She needs a mate who allows her to demonstrate her independence, directness, and idealism on a regular basis, but she can get easily bored if she is always the one in charge. What she is looking for is a competent contender, as nothing is more stimulating to her than a passionate argument. Secretly she is amused by opposing views or opinions, so if you want to see sincere disappointment in her eyes, clam up and refuse to argue. In her favor, she rarely holds a grudge and will easily forget and forgive a disagreement. This does not mean she will give up the fight. Not a chance. She believes she is born to win and not much gets in her way. If a life of peace and constant harmony is what you desire for your happiness, don't even attempt this union.

First Approach: Normally this women is not shy. More than likely she will give YOU clear signals if she is interested. She admires people who are as direct and uncomplicated as she is, but show any sign of being dull and you can color her not interested! If you feel she needs the opportunity to get to know you, then give it your best shot, but be forewarned that if she decides to decline, the biggest mistake you can make is to get too pushy. Your best bet is to give her your phone number and tell her to give you a call if she ever changes her mind.

First Date: Your first date does not have to be an expensive evening, but keep in mind that she is energetic, highly enthusiastic, and geared for fun and adventure. Keep the conversation stimulating and ask her plenty of questions about herself. If she has enjoyed the date, it will be more than obvious. A risk taker by nature, when she hears bells ringing, she is not apt to stop at the front door. Keeping in mind, her need to be challenged, you might want to remember that an easy catch is not always her most thrilling one.
Erogenous Zone: Forehead, scalp, ears, lips. Nibble, rub and kiss.

Last date: Be pessimistic, boring and unmotivated. Complain and whine, constantly. Drag your feet when she wants to do anything. Never let her finish a sentence without interrupting her. Now stand back and watch the door slam behind you. Hard!

ARIES MALE: This man desires a life of constant challenges, so if you are not up to keeping him on his toes - both mentally and physically - don't even go there. If he likes you, you will know it, as his first moves are as subtle as a stampede. Notably the daring romantic, he is the first to take a blind leap when it comes to love. But remember, his leap works both ways! Direct, passionate and spontaneous, he is never happier than when he is in hot pursuit of his goals . If you happen to be one of his goals, be prepared for capture. This man can live up to your every expectation on first run. However, once he has captured your heart, be forewarned that he will be setting his sights elsewhere if you do not gain his respect and keep him mentally stimulated.

First Approach: Be a moving target of energy and vitality. Cheerfulness gets big points. He will be flattered if you ask him out, as he likes a person who knows what they want. If for some reason he does decline, say "ouch", smile, and move on. It probably is a done deal, but he will respect your honest reaction and positive attitude. If he ever does have a change of heart, he will let you know.

First Date: Make sure you have an adventurous event planned out. Strong Aries types hate to sit for long periods of time, and if they are subjected to it for too long; they just get up and leave - with or without you. This is not a guy who expects you to agree with everything he says, but if you don't, be prepared for a rather fiery discussion. "Willful" is his middle name, but if you can match it with some of your own strength of character, he will be intrigued. This is not to say, he will allow anyone to dominate him, as that is not in his make-up. He secretly years for a mate who is strong enough to butt heads with him once in awhile. It might be wise to remember that this guy desires instant gratification to put out his eternal fires, so if you are not ready for immediate intimacy, you might want to make it very clear before the situation gets out of hand.
Erogenous Zones: Forehead, scalp, ears, lips. Nibble, rub and kiss.

Last Date: Although this man doesn't like a push over, if you boss him around, he will be gone faster than you can say: "Empty the garbage on your way out!" If that does not work, then make sure you finish his sentences, talk about the most depressing subjects you can think of, and nag him constantly. He will all but fling himself into a burning fire to avoid you.

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