CANCER FEMALE: Sensitive, moody, nurturing and security -conscious, this woman can warm your heart, and in the next breath drench you in ice water. Don't expect predictability and never make the mistake of turning your back when she needs your attention. She may forgive, but forget, don't count on it! Once she is committed, you will wonder how you ever lived without her. She offers a very special love and gives it with generosity and completeness. Anything less would seem like cheating to her. Her moods may confuse you at times, but if you have a gift for helping her verbalize her feelings, it can do much to deepen the relationship. If you yearn for a women who is nurturing, protective and delightfully loving, you needn't look any further.

First Approach: Don't lose heart if she appears cool and aloof at first, as this is usually just a protective devise. Even if she appears extroverted, underneath it all, she does have a cautious reserve until she feels safe with you. She admires strong, confident people, but they must show a sensitive side to their nature before she will let down her guard and be responsive. Her approach is the side-way crawl, but yours needs to be rather direct. Don't be afraid to show her the little child in you, as this will automatically make you all the more desirable. Remember, they don't call her the "mother of the zodiac" for nothing!

First Date: She likes all of the old fashioned romantic traditions of courtship, so arriving at the door with flowers is going to give you major points. She is impressed by good manners and likes to be treated like a lady at all times. She can be swept away by her emotions, but since the depth of her emotions is what makes her so special, it is usually best to allow them to build to a peak . This will ultimately give you both a chance to enjoy the emotional bonding of intimacy that comes with time.

EROGENOUS ZONE: Breasts and chest. Very sensitive area - move with care.

Last Date: Be totally insensitive. Say cruel things about animals and small children. Burp at the table and don't excuse yourself. She may not charge out of your life, as that is usually not her style, but you can be rest assured she will be changing her phone number.

CANCER MALE: This man is emotionally deep, but often times evasive because of his vulnerable sensitivity. He may not admit this, but he can feel emotional currents before they are even expressed. He is an instinctive person and rarely logical when it comes to his own motives. Many times this man has strong family ties. - especially with his mother. If he doesn't, then often times he has mother "issues" that hold him back from having a healthy relationship until he resolves them. Whatever the case may be, he often yearns for a secure home -life and family. Be forewarned that he is tenaciously self protective, but in the same vein he can be one of the most protective and nurturing partners and parents of the zodiac. What is important is that he finds a person who honors his great gift for sensitivity and helps him express it in a healthy way.

First Approach: Never one to put himself in a position of being rejected, he will rarely take the initiative to move forward unless he feels absolutely safe with a person. Absolutes are difficult, so this makes him one man who needs to know -without a doubt- that you are interested. Advise: Be brave, be vulnerable and show him you care.

First Date: If you like this man, he needs to know it right away. For example; he likes graceful displays of affection, as they reassure him that he is liked. Cool, detached- types might intrigue him, but they rarely impress him in the long run. . He likes a person who is not afraid to be soft, feminine and gentle. If you can act like a friend, mother and lover - all in one, your first date won't be the last. In matters of intimacy, it is best to start with long promising looks and affectionate hand- holding. He likes a passionate, sensual woman, but rarely expects the whole package to be delivered in one night.
EROGENOUS ZONE: : Breasts and chest. Very sensitive area - move with care.

Last Date: Be indifferent and cold; and totally insensitive to his feelings. Like the crab he symbolizes, he will encase himself in a thicker shell and move rapidly out of your sight.

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