LIBRA FEMALE: Loving, sweet and full of life, this lady is a delightful package of enchanting charms. The main aspect of her character is her need to relate and communicate. Easily bored, she if often preoccupied with all kinds of activities, which tend to be more mental than physical. At times she can seem elusive, aloof or indecisive. This is simply a diversionary tactic she uses skillfully when she is weighing out both sides of any situation. Although she can be sweetly assertive if she needs to be, she is not one to be too aggressive. Impressionable, with a delicate nervous system, she tends to get drained when life gets too stressful. She needs a committed partner who can offer a strong shoulder to lean on when life gets chaotic. She values the good life and all the luxuries life has to offer, but she is willing to wait for the material goods as long as the relationship is high on the priority list. If relationships are secondary to your work, you may want to look elsewhere. She may not demand that you change, but it won't be long before the lovely butterfly of the Zodiac takes flight.

First Approach: Be a "class act", and this woman will take notice. She is attracted to strong, intelligent, loving mates, who are bright and ambitious. Flirtatious by nature, she loves attention and usually gets it. Sometimes you may be left wondering if she is indeed serious about you, or it is just her way of being friendly. The fact is, she may be flirtatious, but if she accepts an offer for a date, you better believe she is interested. She takes this thing called love, seriously, so be prepared to fall in love or don't bother. They don't call her the Goddess of love, for nothing! Scared? You should be; because she is a keeper.

First Date: She lights up when a man knows how to treat a lady. Be romantic and indulge her, as she knows how to make you feel better than you have in a long time. So don't hold back and be sure and show her just how wonderful you can be. A delightful conversationalist, she will keep you entertained and laughing the entire evening. Remember that nothing is more of a turn off to her than a person who insists on talking about dark subjects. The air will suddenly turn chilly if you subject her to gloomy and dismal subjects. She simply does not want to go there! However, if the date was magical, you will know it. She may not bring you directly into her bedroom the first night, but you can count on a few encouraging promises of things to come.

EROGENOUS ZONE: Small of back and buttocks. Changing pattern between firm and gentle strokes.

Last Date: Discuss morbid topics with her constantly. Be rude, crude and impolite in public. Complain about every dime you have to spend on her. You won't have to look again, she will be gone.

LIBRA MALE: If there is anything this man loves, it is romance. He thrives on it actually. Normally he is extroverted, but even if he is more introverted, his eyes give away his romantic nature. Second to his love of romance, he is concerned with principles and has some very strong opinions as to how a relationship should or should not be. The ritual of courtship is something he understands completely. In fact, it is in the midst of courtship that he seems to shine the most. It's when it moves into the stages of intimacy that he sometimes has a problem. This is because he is more idealistic than realistic and has a problem working on a relationship if it shows signs of conflict and disharmony. He needs a person in his life who knows how to create a relationship rooted in harmony and equality. Never comfortable making all of the decisions, he is drawn to a mate who is decisive. His emotional extremes can be apparent at times, but he would much rather discuss them than be by himself. As a mate he is exceptionally good at listening to logic, but overly emotional displays are sure to unglue him. However, if a connected at the hip coupling appeals to you, this Prince Charming is a good bet.

First Approach: A good start is to be gracious, friendly, light-hearted, lovely and delightful. He desires a relationship that honors his need for perfect harmony, balance and equality in a relationship. Being beautifully groomed and feminine in appearance is always a plus, as he has a keen eye for aesthetics and enjoys all that is invested in the female image. One thing he is definitely not crazy about is abrasive, loud or overly aggressive types. So if you are doing the asking, do it in a very soft way.

First Date: He is a romantic and loves a companion who indulges him. Social events are always a pleasant arena, but so are candle light dinners for two. Ambiance counts. He wants to show you what a perfect gentleman he is, so let him. He's a lover, so if you are hell bent on seducing him, he will readily respond. However he does have some traditional values, so if marriage is on your mind, it is best to wait.
EROGENOUS ZONES : Small of back and buttocks. Changing pattern between firm and gentle strokes.

Last Date: Talk like a truck driver in a rotten mood. Refuse to dress in anything but dirty blue jeans and a stained crumpled T-shirt that say's "Screw the world". That's if you really want to see him sprout wings and take flight quickly.

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