VIRGO FEMALE: Serious minded, by nature, this gal is skillfully analytical and dedicated to whatever she sees worthy of her attention. She may appear extroverted or introverted, but either way she still has a practical reserve. She is not an open book, but once you get to know her you will find she has a lot to offer in the way of gentle caring and ongoing mental stimulation. Not one to take love lightly, when she is in a relationship she works hard at making it right. Her need to be of service and helpful at all times, often makes her the target of people who can take advantage of her. This is because of her desire to fix things that are not working properly, and that can mean people. At the same time she can be critical of people who do not live up to her rather defined set of expectations. However, if you want a woman who will work at your side, and is a born giver, this gal will probably be your best bet. Do her a favor though, and show her how to take as well.

First Approach: This woman is governed by her head first, so it is important to gain her respect before she is ready for anything more serious. Usually articulate and intelligent, she appreciates a person who is can carry on a good conversation. She strives for perfection, and likes to see other people striving for the same effect. She may or may not be shy, but unexpected advances can make her nervous. The best bet with her is to take logical steps in getting to know her and the rest will fall into place.

First Date: She normally pay's attention to her grooming, so it is best that you do too. She admires a person who is articulate and refrains from swearing. Off color jokes, especially on the first date are not recommended. Some Virgo's are natural conversationalists, but the introverted ones prefer to observe and listen. If she is the later, then ask questions that can't be answered
with a yes or no. You may want to ask her what kind of food she likes before taking her out to eat, as she can have some very strict health rules. In matters of immediate intimacy, she is a bit too logical to jump into anything too quickly. Patience and consideration go over well with this lady. She is not a prude, but she prefers a person who shows restraint. Underneath her cool reserve, she has strong earthy passions, but it takes a special person to win her heart.

EROGENOUS ZONE: Stomach. Small circular movements will do it.

Last Date: Be loud and uncouth in public. Talk incessantly about how much you hate any form of work. Be constantly disorganized and look like a slob. Never take any of her suggestions. She won't slam the door on her way out, but you can be rest assured, she won't be back.

VIRGO MALE:
Often times this man is misunderstood. It stands to reason that none of us should be categorized, and Virgo men are a good example of this. Bare in mind that all the signs have a fundamental drive, but depending on other factors, this drive is not always experienced in the Sun Sign expression. However, even though it may not be discernible by first observation, he is always organized in his mind. He may not fall into the category of being neat and tidy, but don't bet on it. Two words that fit into his world are "discrimination" and "perfection", and this you can count on. He appreciates people who are intelligent and witty, but for long-term commitment he needs someone who is trustworthy, warm and gentle. Yes, he is picky and he often takes a long time before he commits emotionally. This can prove to be frustrating to a potential mate, but once he does commit, he is unquestionable devoted.

First Approach . The best approach is a steady, but easy- going one. He likes to observe you for awhile before making a hasty decision. He's not a gambler by any definition, and especially when it comes to love. He seems to mistrust anything that happens too suddenly. If you share his interests, then you will have a firm base to stand on. Not easily taken by just by appearances, there has to be a meeting of the minds to keep him interested for any length of time.

First Date: Don't expect a wild night, because he sure doesn't. He always enjoys stimulating conversations in a refined, but not too flashy atmosphere. It's best to keep your emotional jets on low and concentrate on getting to know him on the first date. Underneath the complex layers of his personality, you will find a sensual earthy man yearning to please you in every way. Secretly he yearns for a partner who can gentle guide him into the world of pleasure and play. If you can provide this, his genuine support of you, and his helpful generosity will be yours for the asking.
However, this man needs time to analyze his true feelings before you give him that chance.


EROGENOUS ZONE: Stomach. Small circular movements will do it.

Last Date: Be as impractical as you possible can be. Don't utter a logical word, and when he does, laugh at him and call him crazy. Be messy, unorganized and very dull. Logically speaking, you have done all you need to send him on his way.

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